A good man is hard to find

Females as young girls and mature adults, often create well developed envisions of their future soul mates. We do not usually take into account the places that we find these men, our emotions at the time, our age, the weather-the circumstances. We just think about them and what life is supposed to be like after we have found that special loved one that makes all our secret envisions come true. And that is what makes finding that jaw-dropping-take-a-second-look-I-am-head-over-heels kinda guy so hard. We build these perfect people that do not exist. Not a single person on this earth is perfect. Life would be way to easy, and the universe likes balance. People have come close to perfect and others are far from it, but there is a balance. Once we have found these people we know they are the one. The world does seem to stop and it does seem like they are the only other person with you in a room full of people. And that feeling of lust and love, gives you some "leeway" when being with this person. This person has faults and you come to love them, better yet you embrace them. You see them for who they are, and not what ever your hormone-filled teenage mind came up with. You are in love and image could not come in the way of that. It is hard going through the process and putting your future in fait's hands but once you find the right person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, it is far from difficult to let go of the image you have dreamt of and hold onto the moments you have now with the new and improved image of the love of your life.